Can you love a sad girl? I mean maybe you can but do you really know how? It’s easy to love her all smiling, positive and supportive. When she talks about the sun and moon and stars, how they shine and how beautiful they are. When she talks about the beautiful colour of the ocean and the limitless sky, the chirping birds and wet grass. But that’s not really her. Deep inside, in all realness, she’s just a sad girl.
Would you know how to love her still when she decides to stop pretending? When she decides to take off that mask and leave it hanging at the door for good. When she decides it’s okay not to be okay. When she decides it’s okay to be that way. When she decides there is no other way she’d rather be. Would you still love her? I mean would you know how to love her? Would you be able to stand the melancholy in her eyes and her half hearted smile?
Love her not only when she talks about the colours of the ocean but the darkness in its depth- when the fears take over.
Love her not only when she talks about the limitless blue sky but the storm that accompanies it- the hurricane of her insecurities.
Love her not only when she talks about sun moon and the stars but when she’s a little too literally a black hole herself. A galaxy within a galaxy- a confusing state of complicated mess.
Love her when the stars in her eyes lose their shine, when you see her eyes hazy with fog and dew drops. When she can’t see anything else, make her see you. Let her know that you are still here. And that you’ll always be no matter what.
Love her like the sunset; you know it will disappear but you admire it nonetheless for as long as it lasts. Love her fiercely like the dying light of the orange sun; warm and burning.
Because it’s easy to love a girl that smiles. Anybody can do that for you. She will know your worth when you still keep loving her. Actually love her more, much more than before, especially when her smile has faded among the deathly hollows of her sorrow.
So tell me can you love a sad girl ? Do you know how?
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Hello, quite hard to love a sad person that doesn’t like themselves. Plus it is not easy to love a girl that is always happy, there is happiness and sadness intertwined in life.
If there is a girl with only sadness, I’m out, and most guys unless they want to self-destruct.
And the same goes for women, would YOU want to be with a guy that is always moaning and sad? I doubt it.
Just human nature, for most humans.
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Beautiful sadness
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And where is my sad friend? I was just reading Kruti’s blog and I found the mischievous and happy Zee cheering up her friend. Come back, Zee!
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Heyyyy Rob!!! Hello my friend !! Well I’ve been here but lost in…life I guess ! And so much has happened and so much has changed. I AM planning to be back for a few posts for wrapping it up I guess. Don’t know when tho.
How have you been??? Like how’s everything ? How’s life ??
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Kruti had said that the both of you might quit blogging😢. I hope that’s changed.
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This is awesome. i would’ve writen this myself.
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I’m in awe of you.
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Beautiful
Would love make her happy?
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Delightfully Written:) so much profundity and emotions….
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Maybe. Maybe not.
In hope of love I exist.
For it may change my life.
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The answer is a big YES! Relationship with this girl would not be boring at all. 😀
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I loved this and the constant theme of nature throughout, maybe because I was/am that sad girl always pretending to be happy it hit home
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Another beautiful poem from you, Zee. I believe yes, why not love a sad girl or a sad person because love knows no boundaries. ‘Love her like the sunset; you know it will disappear but you admire it nonetheless for as long as it lasts.’ This is such a sad line, though. Sort of meaning that love will never last 😦 But maybe it can also be taken to mean that feelings come and go and they can come around again for certain moments in time 🙂
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Yes Mabel that’s what I meant by loving like sunset; it can disappear for moment in time but then be incredibly beautiful at the same time as well. And although it may seem to have disappeared temporarily, it shall come again. Like hope. True love is like hope. Like sunset 🙂
Thank you so much Mabel ♥️
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this reminds me a poem i wrote sometime ago:
http://wp.me/p6FwZ-Qc
a quote from marilyn monroe applies as well: “… if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.”
cheers!
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love ya amiga
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Love ya back ♥️
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🙂
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Hey there LITTLE devil. I got a thought about this, and by the way very well written and this was to deep for me, I’m shallow. I guess it all depends on the individual, but do you really want to be around a person that is always down? Most people don’t. I will include my self in the sense that when I am feeling down I just block everybody out, and then I get my strenght together and just keep on and keep on, and life is a bitch so we might accept it and try to do the best we can to deal with it. Nothing that you already know.
Hey! You do know who is comming late september right? I would like to meet you too one day in my lifetime, as I found out it seems a familly member she got 3 followers on instagram. And I’m happy that this familly member is not only getting used to use the “new” technology, internet,
but happy for all you three, you do make her life happier, instead of having me screw things up.
Love ya, little devil.
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Hahaha that’s very cute Charly. At the end of the day what makes your mom happy makes you happy too. And she is the sweetest person I’ve ever come across! I’m happy for you all, Its so surreal they will be meeting your family. Im looking forward to see many pictures btw 😉
And yes I hope one day I get to do the same!☺️ Have a great weekend 🙂
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I was thinking of putting hiden cameras to see how they interact, I’ll just go there for a few hours and I’m out, but the important thing is my “mommy”, she’s happy, then I’m happy.
And with you…… hummmmmm….. no moma there, is you and me and the streets of my country, party party lets get smarty!
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Yes, I can, dear Zee ❤ Here's a double Pawkiss for a Happy Day 🙂 ❤
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Awww, Thank you little binky. Love back ♥️♥️
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So well penned Zee. None of us can help who and what we are, but if someone truly love us they will find a way to cope with all of that we are and are not. They will embrace us as whole beings which involves the “good, the bad, and the ugly.” Love and hugs, N 🙂 ❤
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Absolutely. Couldn’t have said it any better. With love, it’s all or nothing. You accept the person fully or you don’t. That’s what true love is, through thick and thin and everything in between.
Hope you have been well Natalie. And having a wonderful weekend ♥️
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Yeppers tis so true❣️ Have a great week sweet Zee❌⭕️
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sMiLes.. my FriEnd Zee.. for can and
will a man Love like a Mother
Unconditionally fearlessly
And smARTly too
understanding
deepest
abyss
undewater
and beyond
rainbow colors
of BeinG HuMaN
too.. so could my wife
eventually stay my side.. the happiest
man she saw as me in the entire world
when she first met me before i fell again
to deeper abyss as i did at age 21 and
47 again.. with just a depression that
at least felt after losing first love
at age 19 before the second
‘big’ one for about a
year and the
last one
for Katrina
to endure as living
hell and she to witness it
for 66 months.. i suppose the
strength could have come from a
Childhood with Mother’s Boy Friend
Standing over her bed with a knife or
perhaps the time a thief broke into her
home and snuggled up close to she and
her sister before they screamed bloody
murder and he ran off.. sure.. some perspective then..
i guess for the darkness that would come as me not a harmful
one to others but never the less a dark bird tarred pit of A soul
just hoping for an escape again to the Mother’s Love bread and
watered into me as Garden of Love never ending when it exists
As BriGHTeST StAR
for now..
Bi-Polar is
a real challenge my
friend.. in someways more
challenging than the Autism
Spectrum but as long as i can will
dance and sing in Balance i won’t
go back to hell again.. and it’s true..
only my Mother and My Sister and her
significant other and actually yes..
a friend from where i worked
at a Bowling
Center
named Greg and
an Uncle Bob and
an Aunt Jettie and
some older family
elders and sure..
A Father who was
there but was not.. those
who didn’t feel too afraid
to speak to me.. not worrying
if they would sink to that new low
that become my life in the numb and
pain of Hell on Earth that even Demons
Scare to tread.. Anyway.. i’ve been Loved this
way for what you question is it possible to love a sad
girl for when that girl comes in form of a man too as sad
sad song that has no end for now.. it’s true.. it’s possible but it’s gold..
whenever someone hears my hell story they find it almost impossible
to believe that Katrina stayed.. and seriously.. i find it almost impossible that they don’t
understand
why
it is
possible my friend..
Love wins when real
all else fails in a Game of Life..
i never give up on a friend no matter
what for i my friend will be the friend of Love as given to me..
the hardest part of my entire life was the loss of ability to
even feel
love
from
those
who loved
me no matter
what.. Heaven went away then
and when Heaven comes back
i never let it go again.. NoW iN aN
Olympic Sport of exercising heART..
for nothing else in life even counts when one loses that feel nothing nothing at all….
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Beautifully Written:) so much depth and emotions.
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Thank you so much ☺️☺️
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That’s beautiful and so wonderfully well written. I wonder this myself sometimes, if they could still love someone, when they realise the jokey nature is a facade.
The reality is they should, because what’s not to love x
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You pretty much summed it up right, “the reality is they should because what’s not to love”. Love is about accepting the person wholly or not at all.
Thanks a lot for reading and sharing your thoughts ♥️
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Love doesn’t see sadness nor happiness. Love sees the being beneath all emotions and feelings. The pure precious and unique creature. Once a person falls in love with that being that love will let the beloved stop asking herself for what emotions she is loved for… true love makes you understand that you are loved for who you are and not for what you do. Much love to you, Zee 💖
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“True love makes you understand that you are loved for who you are and not for what you do”. Such profound wisdom in your words as always Erika. I couldn’t agree more. Thank you so much. Hope you are having a wonderful weekend ♥️
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Hi, Zee! It was a nice and filled weekend.Thank you! I hope you had a good one too and I wish you a great week ahead 💖
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Preach!!!!!!
Well said!!!
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Beautiful post Zee: exceptionally well-written. And good advice as well.
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Thank you very much Josh ☺️☺️
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How can you mend a broken heart…The Bee Gees
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Haha good idea 😉
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When you are drowning in your infinite blackened sea
When the harsh clouds of the hurricane devours your brilliant stars
When the flowers wilt and are covered in deep cold snow
When you are too tired to fake the smile for a minute more
When the Sun is eclipsed by the Moon
Call me and ask me again
I will always answer the call
And will let you know
Sometimes you need to keep that smile for others as well as for yourself, and you need to talk about the beauty just to remind yourself that beauty does exist, but sometimes you need to let it go. Sometimes you need to let your inner self out. Any who can’t accept that “you” is just a fair weather friend. You need friends for all weathers, even if you think those blue skies my never be seen again. Especially if you think those blue skies are gone.
I still don’t understand how you can write about pain and have it come out so beautiful. And you always know the perfect song to go with your words. Do you choose the song to fit the mood and write around it, or write your mood and find the song to fit it?
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Trent!!! Wow!! Just wow. Your words so perfectly complimented mine. I don’t know if you wrote it at the spot after reading my poem or it’s one of your already published poems, but it is beautiful. Thank you so much. Your words are such a comfort to my heart. Because the way you “feel” and interpret my words, nobody else is able to do. So it makes me feel “understood”.
And as far as music is concerned, I usually just think/post the song when I’m about to post a certain piece of writing. Nothing is planned really. So yeah I write my ‘mood’ and find the song to fit it later on 😉
Btw hope you are having a good weekend ♥️
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The words just came when I read your post. I started to write them out as prose, but half way through changed it to the poem. I am glad you like it and that it makes you feel good, “understood”.
The weekend is good. I am in northern Maine. Using my mobile for this…
Hope you are well and having a great weekend. ☺️😎😎❤️
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Wow. I guess it being spontaneous makes it even more amazing. You should post it as a poem then!
And yes I’m well. I was out of city too. Just got back few days ago. Got a lot of catching up to do on blogging I guess 😅 *sigh*
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Were you in the mountains? Was the snow from this “get away”? Yeah, I am actually doing a bit of a blog break and don’t look forward to catching up when I end 😉
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No, that picture is from the beginning of this year. When I saw snow for the first time, haha. I mean actual snowfall ! 😁😁
Aaaaand guesss whattt, I was wondering why I haven’t seen any of your posts in my reader since past month. Turns out, somehow I wasn’t following your blog anymore😧 don’t know how that happened😵 so I guess even when you are on a break I have a lot to catch up on your blog 😉
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Word Press seems to sometimes do that, drop people. My slow down just started, so plenty to cat h up with 😉
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Well said Trent
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Thanks.
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