I don’t know why or how people have this audacity to make other people feel less. I have never before in my life come across as such person or people but now that I have I’m baffled by their behavior. If you somehow think that you come from a better schooling system, or a better class how does that make you a better person than anybody else? How does that make you right and everybody else wrong?
What is the scale with which you measure a person as being good, better or best? Do you know of any such scale than please do let me know so I can measure people accordingly because some people have been getting on my nerves way too much for my taste lately. I mean WTF? Why the fuck do you think you are SO much better than others?!
Just so you know any person I’m talking about hasn’t done or said anything directly to me but their behavior with others or towards friends just ticks me off completely. Like pushes my buttons on so many levels I never thought even existed because I can ignore people for anything but this? It’s just not possible if you have your contorted aarogant face right in front of me ALL THE FREAKING TIME. I’m not even exaggerating about this fact that, this person looks at others like they are small insects or like they are the most repellent people on earth. Even the looks of judgment I can spot from right across the hall. Like seriously ON EVERY SINGLE THING that teachers or the other student says that person has the most disgusted look on its face like somehow he or she is better than everybody else. And it’s not even just about looks you give to other people, it’s also about the stuff you say as well. If you think that maybe its just me, It’s not. Everybody has noticed that, it’s another thing nobody says anything to him/her.
I fail to understand such behavior on people’s part, The feeling of being superior, you walk the earth like you own it, with the way you talk you make other people feel lesser than you? Where is the scale which makes you much more superior. People think that just because they come from better schools (by being “Better” I mean facilities wise or higher educational expenses) everybody else is illiterate or has no vision except them.
Today was just a breaking point for me, One of my friends was crying due to some reason and we were all comforting her when that person gave her the most disgusting and judgmental look a person can give to the other without saying anything. I get the some people don’t cry in public I’m one of them I just can’t do it, but to judge others who do, is just wrong. Some people just don’t have the tendency to hold it in. They have to let it out in the comfort of family or friends. Why, is it such a bad thing? In my opinion it’s not. It maybe a personal choice but it certainly doesn’t give me a right to judge the other person. Some people are very sensitive and soft-hearted, that doesn’t make them weak just like it doesn’t make me strong if I don’t cry in front of anybody.
I read somewhere that Psychologists say that there is no such thing as superiority complex, people who have superiority complex actually have an inferiority complex from the inside which makes them see others as inferior as well. Or just to make themselves see in better light they consider others as less.
“There are two kinds of pride, both good and bad. ‘Good pride’ represents our dignity and self-respect. ‘Bad pride’ is the deadly sin of superiority that reeks of conceit and arrogance.”